I am looking for a good partner that knows how a woman should be treated.


I am a teacher and a writer and while the professional side of me is important, I am also an adventurer, traveller and love to keep active and have fun. A sense of humour, the ability to have an intellectual conversation, being adventurous, kind and having an openness and passion towards life are some of the characteristics I have and am looking for in you. I love to read and write, photograph, hang out near the water. As far as relationships go, it is the little things that make me happy and I hope you are that way too. A cup of coffee together, people watching in a bustling place, a hug on a tough day, a flower picked by the side of the road, snuggling up for a good football game with something cooking on the stove, a glass of wine, a heart drawn in the sand, a picnic watching a sunset. Life always seems to amaze me and I love surprises whether for me or to give to others..I'd love to find a suitable partner for a long-term committed relationship, but I think that starting off slowly and getting to know one another before getting too serious makes for the best path to a sustainable relationship.I am looking for a long-term realationship, someone to spend the rest of my life with. Sorry not into one night stands and, will not sleep with someone i am not in a committed realationship with. Just wanted to make things clear from the start. I would like to meet someone I find very attractive/kind hearted/intelligent and to build a great friendship first and foremost through mutually shared interests and activities and honest and genuine communication. I love learning new things, so someone with varied interests and an open, inquisitive mind would be perfect for me..Pls contact me if you think we have the same thing in common and drop me your contact or cell number so that we can able to talk and get along better from there because i believe lift is too short and am ready to start a new life with my partner..

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45 year old Woman, in Burlington, Vermont, USA
Height: 5' 6"
Body type: proportionate
Ethnicity: white (caucasian)
Smoking: non-smoker
Drinking: non-drinker
Have children?: yes, living with full time
Want children?: undecided
Income: average
Education: university bachelors degree
Religion: Catholic
Lifestyle: very active
Personality: somewhat outgoing
Personal style: femme
Interests: cycling, golf, rock climbing, running/jogging, cross-country skiing, skydiving, softball, swimming, tennis, beach volleyball, water skiing, snowshoeing, amusement parks, bird watching, boating


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