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BrenL - Now very good at selfies
Now very good at selfies

I'm smart (I have a Master's) and I think I have a great sense of humor. I want to meet someone who likes conversation, laughter, and the beach. My dream is to live in Santa Cruz again ( I lived there for some time before my accident. I was in a near fatal car accident when I was 22. I walk with a limp but basically I'm healthy. I'm always afraid my disability will scare people away. But it shouldn't. I'm not hideous or deformed. I just have some orthopedic limitations, which keep me from doing some physical activities. But believe me, I don't feel sorry for myself and I can still dance like it's 1999 😊. I want to meet someone who loves life and would like to help me keep the loneliness away.

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60 year old Woman, in Modesto, California, USA
Height: 5' 7"
Body type: curvy
Ethnicity: white (caucasian)
Smoking: occasional/social smoker
Drinking: light social drinker
Have children?: yes, but not living with
Want children?: no
Income: modest
Education: masters degree
Religion: non-religious
Lifestyle: relaxed
Personality: somewhat outgoing
Personal style: feminine (gender typical)
Interests: surfing/wind-surfing, swimming, sailing, amusement parks, boating, picnics, relaxing on the beach, walking (pleasure), stargazing, baseball, basketball, football, olympic sports, volleyball, pubs


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