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I identify as demi sexual so it is very important for me to create a foundation with another that is built on a platonic understanding. Something far greater than just friendship. Although friendship is necessary to solidify the foundation. In my opinion, it is merely a step in a very arduous process towards a meaningful, long term relationship which is my ultimate goal.

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50 year old Woman, in Stockton, California, USA
Height: 5' 6"
Body type: proportionate
Ethnicity: black (African heritage)
Smoking: non-smoker
Drinking: non-drinker
Have children?: none
Want children?: no
Education: technical or arts diploma (2-3 years)
Religion: spiritual/new-age
Lifestyle: relaxed
Personality: somewhat quiet
Personal style: soft butch
Interests: amusement parks, bird watching, boating, canoeing/kayaking, hiking, picnics, walking (pleasure), stargazing, rodeo, country drives, museums/galleries, cooking, internet, reading, movies at home


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