I am an introverted, overweight, middle-aged guy who is just looking to find someone who is genuine, honest, and dedicated. I'm not looking for one-night stands or someone who is only interested when it is convenient for them. I am also not interested in anyone older than I am. So please, if you are and send me a message, please don't think me rude if I don't respond. I know what I want, and I don't lead anyone on. Additionally, you MUST be IN the United States.

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