Hi, I'm RJ and trying this site out. I was a gay widower - lost my partner in 2010. My longest relationship was 7 yrs. Recently moved back to Ohio after a failed relationship in NC. I'm not here for hookups or endless chat and cyber chat. I'm looking for new platonic friendship but more importantly, someone special. I'm a relationship oriented man and I'm hoping to one day delete my profiles and have a husband again. Down to earth, fun-loving and a romantic at heart. Love to laugh, enjoy cooking, music, art, DVD nights, coffee, wine, outdoor activities, movies, walking and hiking, board games, cards, etc. More attracted to masculine but sensitive men 35-55, White. I'm open though and nothing is written in stone. Can even possibly relocate for love.

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41 year old Man, in Dayton, Ohio, USA
Height: 6' 2"
Body type: a few extra pounds
Ethnicity: black (African heritage)
Smoking: non-smoker
Drinking: light social drinker
Have children?: none
Want children?: undecided
Income: modest
Religion: Christian (non-Catholic)
Lifestyle: somewhat active
Personality: somewhat outgoing
Sexual style: versatile
Interests: hiking, picnics, relaxing on the beach, walking (fitness), walking (pleasure), coffee shops, country drives, live theater, movies, museums/galleries, shopping, board games, cooking, musical instruments/singing, reading


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