I'm not a psycho...Today!

I am an honest, easy going woman who is seeking the same. I love to laugh and enjoy doing the same to others. I enjoy outdoor activities but an quite content staying at home. I am tired of the relationship games and am looking for a mature male who can carry an intellectually stimulating conversation on something other than himself.

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38 year old Woman, in Honolulu, Hawaii, USA
Height: 5' 3"
Ethnicity: asian
Body type: athletic
Smoking: non-smoker
Lifestyle: somewhat active
Personality: somewhat outgoing
Sexual style: occasionally a bit adventurous
Education: college diploma
Religion: non-religious
Interests: swimming, hiking, relaxing on the beach, walking (pleasure), working out, pubs, comedy clubs, live theater, TV comedy, TV news/educational, drawing/painting, exotic pets


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