I am an Adult and child addictions counselor and I also counsel adults and children with disabilities...I have a bachelors degree from northwestern university in psychology and i love to make a difference in a persons life...i am very caring,affectionate,considerate,giving,spontaneous,romantic,passionate,and also kind. I am looking for a best friend and lover...someone who is willing to do the work it takes to make a relationship wonderful...i am very romantic and love to do little things...flowers on the pillow...notes on the fridge ...calls to say i love you in the middle of the afternoon...i hope when i find the right woman that we can still be in love well into our 80s i am very affectionate and love to kiss and hold hands...i have been through hard times with women who take me for granted and now i am looking for someone who will appreciate someone who will treat them like a princess...

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39 year old Man, in Decatur, Illinois, USA
Height: 5' 8"
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Body type: average
Smoking: non-smoker
Lifestyle: quite active
Personality: somewhat outgoing
Sexual style: quite adventurous/open-minded
Education: university bachelors degree
Income: above average
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Interests: swimming, beach volleyball, relaxing on the beach, working out, coffee shops, comedy clubs, dancing (nightclub), fine dining, live music, cooking, travel, weekend getaways


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