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Im a very compassionate, honest, hardworking man, I have a 5 yr old son that I try to spend as much time as possible with but am in need of adult interaction. I feel I have alot to offer in a relationship and I love to spoil the one Im with.

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43 year old Man, in South Bend, Indiana, USA
Height: 6' 3"
Ethnicity: white (caucasian)
Body type: athletic
Smoking: occasional/social smoker
Lifestyle: relaxed
Personality: somewhat quiet
Sexual style: occasionally a bit adventurous
Education: technical or arts diploma (2-3 years)
Income: above average
Religion: Christian (non-Catholic)
Interests: golf, sailing, boating, relaxing on the beach, baseball, football, fine dining, live music, movies, cooking, home renovation, musical instruments/singing, movies at home, weekend getaways, wine tasting


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