What the hell am I doing?

Jemma65 - I'm all about my grandkids!!
I'm all about my grandkids!!

Yikes!! OK so I'm scared as hell to do this, but here it goes!! I'm recently divorced after 22 years of marriage. So just starting over and pretty gunshy on the trust issue. I'm pretty old school! My motto is I love God, my grandkids, and my music in that order! If you can't accept all that, then keep walking. Sex is about the furthest thing from my mind right now! I just want to have companionship with someone that wins my heart first. I'm the person that everyone comes to for advice, a shoulder to cry on, or just to have a good laugh with. Family is absolutely everything to me!! They call me Jemma for a reason. If you can figure that one out, then we might have something in common! just changed the G to a J so that I own it! Lol. I love all types of music. I used to be a DJ. But if you play me some Merle, you can pretty much melt my heart! I love concerts, spending time with my grandkids, movies, church, definitely spontaneous roadtrips, casinos and just snuggling up on the couch talking! I just for once in this crazy life for someone to give me that honest big hug and tell me everything is going to be OK. Not to fix a dam thing, just be my shoulder! Someone to say, it's OK to let it iyt once in awhile and then make me laugh like hell. So if I haven't scared you away, ( cause sorry, I'm a tell it like it is kind of girl), then maybe, just maybe, I'm what you are looking for. But if you don't think you can handle this crazy, pretty silly, down to earth grandma, then just keep on walking!! Lol😋

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53 year old Woman, in Red Wing, Minnesota, USA
Height: 5' 5"
Body type: proportionate
Ethnicity: white (caucasian)
Smoking: regular smoker
Drinking: light social drinker
Have children?: yes, but not living with
Want children?: no
Income: modest
Education: high school
Religion: Christian (non-Catholic)
Lifestyle: relaxed
Personality: somewhat outgoing
Sexual style: conventional, please
Interests: swimming, picnics, relaxing on the beach, football, rodeo, pool/billiards, casinos, church, coffee shops, country drives, comedy clubs, dancing (swing/country), karaoke, live music, movies


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