The Real Thing


I am a no nonsense type of girl with a big heart. I love to smile and if I can make you smile even better. Laughing is a turn on. I can crack a joke and be light hearted. My sarcasm can be sharp but it's all in good fun. I expect to be treated well and I never ask for anything that I wouldn't do myself. A relationship is give and take and should never be one sided. I prefer to take things slowly. I do not believe in double standards or broken promises. Check your jealousy and possessiveness at the door if I have my eyes on you trust me that's where they stay. Be truthful be honest and expect nothing less from me. I love to do fun active things like bowling, horseback riding,movies,a night out on the town,dancing,concerts,reading,a walk in the park but don't get me wrong I love a blockbuster night cuddled up on the couch. I am a very family oriented person. I have goals and I have dreams and its important that you do too. If you have no job, no car and your living off of someone else we probably wouldn't work. I am by no means materialistic .I don't care how much money you make just that you have motivation to always be your best because I do. Its important that your self confident but not cocky.Don't be afraid to get dirty or get your hair messed up ,metrosexuals are overrated but keep good hygenie.I'm not perfect in fact I'm far from it. I'm a handful and you can either love that or hate that about me that's your choice but anything worth your time doesn't come easy.

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33 year old Woman, in Edison, New Jersey, USA
Height: 5' 5"
Ethnicity: hispanic
Body type: curvy
Smoking: occasional/social smoker
Lifestyle: somewhat active
Personality: somewhat outgoing
Sexual style: occasionally a bit adventurous
Education: college diploma
Religion: Catholic
Interests: riding/equestrian, camping, 4 wheeling, shooting, hockey, bowling, working out, coffee shops, comedy clubs, fine dining, cooking, photography, weekend getaways


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